With summer just around the corner, many Brits are eagerly anticipating their upcoming holiday plans. And while the idea of sun, sand, and relaxation is enough to get anyone excited, there may be another reason why we look forward to our holidays so eagerly – the potential for a reinvigorated sex life.
According to data from sexual wellness company LELO, a staggering 80% of Brits believe that a holiday away from home can help reignite the passion in their relationship. In addition, 31% say that traveling abroad makes them more adventurous in the bedroom. But why is this the case?
To get a better understanding of this phenomenon, we spoke to licensed sexologist, relationship therapist, and author at Passionerad, Sofie Roos. She explains that one of the main reasons why we feel more open-minded and adventurous on holiday is simply because we have more time and fewer stresses.
“Being on holiday allows us to relax and have more free time,” Roos says. “This not only gives us the opportunity to engage in physical intimacy, but it also opens us up to new experiences and ideas that we may not have had the time or energy for in our everyday lives.”
In addition, being in a new and exciting environment can put us in a better, more playful mood. Roos explains that when we are on holiday, we tend to be the best versions of ourselves, which makes it easier to be passionate and wild in the bedroom.
“Taking in new sights, sounds, and experiences can also change our perspective on our relationship and our partner,” Roos adds. “We see them in a different light, which can reignite the spark and passion in the relationship.”
This phenomenon is often referred to as the “holiday effect.” The combination of relaxation, new experiences, and a change in perspective creates the perfect storm for a passionate and exciting sex life. And while it may seem like this effect can only be achieved while on holiday, sex and relationship expert Natalia Baker from All Things Worn suggests that it is possible to recreate this at home.
“Allocating relaxation time, planning spontaneous dates, and openly discussing your fantasies with your partner can all help to recreate the excitement and anticipation felt on holiday,” Baker says. “Being transparent about what you both enjoy and want to try can help reignite the passion and keep things exciting in the bedroom.”
She also recommends carving out quality time together and making an effort to try new things together, whether it’s trying a new restaurant or going on a day trip to a nearby town. By making an effort to keep the spark alive in your relationship, you can experience the same level of passion and excitement as you do on holiday.
In addition to the holiday effect, there are also other factors that can contribute to a more adventurous and fulfilling sex life while on holiday. Roos explains that factors such as being in a new and exciting environment, trying new foods, and being exposed to different cultures can all play a role in increasing our libido and making us feel more passionate and attracted to our partner.
“Traveling and exploring new places can create a sense of adventure and excitement that can translate into the bedroom,” Roos says. “The combination of a beautiful sunrise, warm weather, and delicious food can also have a positive impact on our mood and overall well-being, making us feel more confident and open to trying new things in the bedroom.”
So, while going on holiday may not be the only solution to a fulfilling sex life, it certainly can provide a much-needed boost. And with the right mindset and effort, you can recreate that same level of passion and excitement in your relationship at home.
In conclusion, it’s clear that taking a break from our everyday lives and exploring new places can have a positive impact on our sex lives. Whether it’s the holiday effect or simply having more time and fewer stresses, there are many reasons why we feel more open-minded and adventurous on holiday. So, as you plan your next getaway, remember that it’s not just about relaxation and rejuvenation – it’s also an opportunity to reignite the passion in your relationship.
